Today's discussion will be different, maybe simpler, both because it's been a busy
week (so I'm sorry I'm late to post as well) and because I'd like to just look
at the meanings, not the reasons, of a verse. And because it's been a long
week, what better topic to discuss than the most beautiful, calming, and
back-to-basics of topics: love, and specifically love of Allah.
Right?!
From Surat Al-Baqarah, the verse reads -- in the original Arabic
text and then three translations (because they give different angles on the
interpretations of the verse):
(وَمِنَ
النَّاسِ مَن يَتَّخِذُ مِن دُونِ اللَّهِ أَندَادًا يُحِبُّونَهُمْ كَحُبِّ
اللَّهِ ۖ وَالَّذِينَ آمَنُوا أَشَدُّ حُبًّا لِّلَّهِ ۗ وَلَوْ يَرَى الَّذِينَ
ظَلَمُوا إِذْ يَرَوْنَ الْعَذَابَ أَنَّ الْقُوَّةَ لِلَّهِ جَمِيعًا وَأَنَّ
اللَّهَ شَدِيدُ الْعَذَابِ) (2:165)
"And
[yet], among the people are those who take other than Allah as equals [to Him].
They love them as they [should] love Allah . But those who believe are stronger
in love for Allah . And if only they who have wronged would consider [that]
when they see the punishment, [they will be certain] that all power belongs to
Allah and that Allah is severe in punishment." (Sahih International) [3]
"And of
mankind are some who take (for worship) others besides Allah as rivals (to
Allah). They love them as they love Allah. But those who believe, love Allah
more (than anything else). If only, those who do wrong could see, when they
will see the torment, that all power belongs to Allah and that Allah is Severe
in punishment." (Muhsin Khan) [3]
"Yet there
are men who take (for worship) others besides Allah, as equal (with Allah):
They love them as they should love Allah. But those of Faith are overflowing in
their love for Allah. If only the unrighteous could see, behold, they would see
the penalty: that to Allah belongs all power, and Allah will strongly enforce
the penalty." [3]
What else is there? If we were not born to love Allah, to live our
lives for the sole purpose of fulfilling that love, then what is the point?
Everything we do has meaning, and is true in the sense of an indefinitely
reaching goal and purpose despite hardship, when it is done in love to Allah.
We as humans were created out of love – and mercy, and greatness, etc., but
ultimately love – so what else could we give in return?
Our entire lives serve this one purpose, and should be shaped by
this love we feel for our creator. I was reading Tariq Ramadan's The
Messenger: The Meanings of the Life of Muhammad, and he explains, "The
Prophet's life is an invitation to a spirituality that avoids no question and
teaches us—in the course of events, trials, hardships, and our quest—that the
true answers to existential questions are more often those given by the heart
than by the intelligence. Deeply, simply: he who cannot love cannot
understand." [1]
Faith, even understanding, needs to begin with love. Natural
sciences, worldly knowledge, can survive on logic – if they are meant to only
explain the world we live in. But only just, and even these man-made and
man-aimed systems of knowledge need a deeper sensibility to extend further, an
understanding that comes not from cold hard fact, but from the feeling that
runs underneath the facts and informs them: that there is something deeper
running beneath what we can see. Can I give you evidence that Allah is watching
over me? Yes, but it's not evidence that your mind alone can accept. The heart
is needed here for truer understanding.
While this has been argued as delusional, sentimental, illogical,
it is a sign of humanity. I don't want to go into the age-old argument of faith
and existence of God, but I will say that, just like anything involving emotion
and "evidence" that you cannot explain only through logic, the love
of Allah and existence through this lens needs more imagination, more trust in
the heart, and acceptance that the human brain is not limitless. It’s stronger
to find faith in a world that has gone all bad. It’s easier to give up, to just
say there is no god, there is no greater power, but it takes strength and a
leap of faith to decide to look past that one-directional thinking and trust in
the feeling that, no, there is God. There's evidence for it, but it also takes
feeling to accept that evidence, specifically love – the desperate, all-enveloping
kind of love that forces us to turn to the creator. It takes a deeper reading
of the world and what happens in it.
But what does it mean to love Allah? In the verse, Allah compares
the love that those who believe have for Allah with the love that those that
believe in other gods have for the idols that they worship: the love for Allah
is stronger as "those who believe are stronger in love for Allah,"
and they "love Allah (more than anything else)." Strength, depth, and
spectrum of love: everything they work for is for the One they love.
But what does it mean to “love” Allah? With people, love comes
from getting to know them, from spending time with them, and from feeling that
they share this love. That’s how we function as humans, so why would love of
Allah be any less? If anything, it’s easier. We’re born with a natural tendency
to feel, and specifically to love other people, animals, things, with varying
degrees of the emotion. This love is the love of the creations of Allah, and
Allah put in us the deeper and stronger love, that of the creator, as “Many
scholars agree on the basis of sound ahadith that Allah creates a person (and
his heart) in such a way that he has the natural inclination to love Allah.”
[2]
But we cannot love anything that we do not know. Movies that start
with two people taking one look at each other and then falling completely in love
with each other leave me thinking I could have had popcorn at home. Sure, that
initial attraction or even love is there, but don’t tell me they’re willing to
jump off cliffs for each other after that first look. With our love for Allah,
we do have that feeling already inside of us because it has been placed there,
because it is He who created us, but true, full, unshaking love for Allah is
not that. The love that the believers in the verse have, that which trumps all
others, that which we are required to have as believers, love that is above our
love of ourselves even, comes from knowledge of Allah, knowledge of His
qualities, of what He has done for us, and simply, how He loves us. Even if we
stray, if we get doubts, “that love has to be rekindled through faith and
knowledge.” [2]
So to get to that love, to prove we feel that love, which is the
natural result of this feeling, “Love of Allah requires us to love what Allah
loves and to dislike what displeases Him and to further demonstrate that love
by following the Quran and the Sunnah." [2] Think about it: the more
you love a person, the more you would do for him or her. And that’s just love
of another human being, a love that is from both sides limited, restricted,
fluctuating. The more you love a person, the more you think about, talk about,
and emulate or at least modify yourself to please that person. With Allah, it’s
manifold.
From Ibn al Qayyim comes a touching and poignant statement that
highlights one aspect of the love for Allah that comes as a kind of reaction to
the love Allah has for us: "If you knew how Allah manages your
affairs, your heart would melt out of love for him." Here, he refers to
asking from Allah and what Allah gives us and has in store for our lives. In
duaa, we ask Allah for a lot, and, although in the day-to-day heat of things,
it might get frustrating, the ultimate form of love is to know that He knows
best, and we will thank Him for it eventually.
At the same time, Allah has no need for us, but he not only cares
for us but allows us to turn to Him, ask of Him, talk to Him, and even complain
and cry over the things we have not been given (and may He forgive us, ignoring
sometimes the things we have been given). And then he answers our prayers, and
the most beautiful of answers is closeness to Him. Fine, the car is good, the
job even better. But the bonus, the unexpected, uncalled for bonus is the
closeness you feel with Allah when you ask him. Yes, you may have been asking
him for something completely worldly (I can't possibly be the only one praying
into the night for a pie store to open in my area, now, can I), but because
you're praying, because you're asking, no matter that what you're asking for
might not necessarily have anything to do with your faith (in your eyes), it is
a form of worship, and one that Allah has asked us to perform. Any form of
worship is, ultimately designed to bring us closer to Allah, to make us love
Him more, and to feel more connected and watched over.
And in this case, how can we not? Allah tells us to ask Him, to do
something that will benefit only us, both in that we are asking, literally, for
things and people and circumstances, and in that we are worshiping Him: He
tells us to do something for ourselves so that He can give us. I don't even
have words for this love. So how can we not love in return? Ultimately, our
entire lives are shaped by Allah’s love, as he created us out of love and for
us to show and prove our love for him. As Tariq Ramadan says, “The One [Allah]
has forever been accompanying us, His creation, from our beginnings to our end.
This is the very meaning of tawheed (the Oneness of God) and of the
Quranic formula that refers to humankind's destiny as well as to that of each
individual: 'To God we belong and to Him we return.'" [1]
[1] Ramadan, Tariq. The Messenger: The Meanings of the Life
of Muhammad.
[2] "A Muslim’s Obligation of Love for Allah." Iqra Sense. http://www.iqrasense.com/allah/a-muslims-obligation-of-love-for-allah.html
[3]
Surat Al-Baqarah. Quran.com. London: Pearson, 2008.